*Tip for Today*

*ARE YOU AN APPROVAL ADDICT?*

Take this quiz…

  • In a dating situation do you get distracted analyzing what you think the other person thinks of you?
  • Do you constantly work to avoid your mate/date’s disapproval?
  • Around the opposite sex do you feel slightly “fake” (like you’re playing a role)? [Read more...]

*Tip for Today*

UNCOMPLICATE YOURSELF

You’ve got physical, psychological, spiritual and emotional needs, relational needs, and intellectual needs, among others. Your mate (or your “mate-on-the-way”) will meet many of those needs—but never ALL of them.

So, don’t require them to. [Read more...]

*Tip for Today*

BEING FLEXIBLE

Don’t be fooled: Marriage is NOT only about love and affection. It’s also about getting a whole bunch of stuff done. There is simply no way to see to everything–the bills, the children, the house, the car, the dishes, the laundry, the in-laws–to manage the mundane details of married life, without making a sincere commitment to flexibility. [Read more...]

*Tip for Today*

STOP IGNORNING YOURSELF

Nobody but nobody is qualified to give you all the right answers about your future and the love life God has planned for you. Every now and then, you do best to listen to the advice of the experts (me included)—and then politely ignore it. [Read more...]

*Tip for Today*

*HOW TO RESTORE YOUR INTIMACY*

Are you in a serious relationship or marriage that once was full of affection and intimacy, but now feels chilly and distant? Do you miss the sparks, the special gestures and that feeling that you and your mate are in sync? Putting these seven pointers into action can help bring you closer again.

1. CHANGE YOUR FOCUS.

Continually harping on what’s not happening in your relationship only results in more distance and frustration. Instead, identify the specific expressions of love and affection that are important to your mate. Lavish them on him—when you feel like it and when you don’t. When you give the kind of affection that’s most satisfying to the one you love, you are much more likely to get back the kind that’s satisfying to you. [Read more...]

Tip for Today

**DATE MORE THAN ONE PERSON**

(Whenever Possible)*

Go ahead and admit it! You’re convinced that only loose, scandalous folks go out with more than one person at a time.

You assume that a few dates with someone kind of nice, somehow means that you owe each other exclusivity – so seeing others too, would mean you’re “cheating”. [Read more...]

Tip for Today

**HOW TO KILL A GREAT RELATIONSHIP (FAST)**

Beware, in love and relationships, your fiercest enemy is self-centeredness. All of us—you included—have some. It’s that part of ourselves that wants what it wants, how it wants it, and when it wants it. [Read more...]

*Tip for Today*

PUT IT INTO WORDS

Never assume anyone knows anything about your love for them without you telling them.  Though you may think that your actions alone have made it clear how much you care for them, I assure you:  they need to hear you say it.

[Read more...]

Here’s the Video I Promised You

A Step-by-Step Guide to Dating With Dignity –

Without Wasting Time, Getting Discouraged, or

Settling for Less Than You’re Worth!

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I just need to ask you…

January 24, 2012
Hi, 

It’s now 2012 and I’ve got to ask you…

What is it about attempting to date and connect with the right mate, that makes so many incredible women eventually give up trying? And, to just “wait and see” what’s going to happen?

Usually I’m “preaching” to you about faithfully pursuing the love life you deserve–to go for it. Today, I’m writing to encourage you to QUIT! That’s right, please STOP… QUIT… GIVE UP… now. 

No, I DON’T mean stop trusting God…or stop believing in yourself…nor do I mean give up your high standards. First name, the part I want you to quit–NOW–is the “wait and see” part.

I know…When you’ve done all you knew, to succeed at relationships…and it hasn’t worked out…then to ”wait and see” feels right.

You and I both know that when you just “wait and see what happens”–basically nothing happens (except another year comes and goes). As your dating mentor, I want so much more than that for you–now–in 2012!

IF you still desire real love and companionship–this year–but you aren’t exactly sure how to get started–and succeed…I’m going to help you with that.

*Check your inbox THURSDAY for the brief video I’m sending you.*

“The Lord says…Forget about what happened in the past…Behold, I will do a new thing…Will YOU not see it?”~ Isaiah 43:18-20 (pph)

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